Tony Robbins has said that "It is in the moments of decision that your destiny is shaped." For the context of this blog let's simplify to "It is in the moments that destiny is shaped."
If your moment to shine... to perform... to serve... to STEP UP and make a meaningful difference... called upon you, would you be ready to answer?
If the sales opportunity of a life time stepped into an elevator right now, what would you do?
If your ultimate career opportunity presented itself, are you prepared?
If the person of your dreams sat down next to you, do you even know what you would say?
If you had to make a decision right now that would define the direction of your life, would you know how to weigh out the options?
If life called upon you right now, are you ready... mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually?
"What we practice in private will be rewarded in public" - Maxim
Intellectually I understood this maxim and just recently it really started to hit home, but it wasn't until this evening that it became a part of me at a fundamental level.
As some of you may know, in addition to Coaching and Training, I am a Wedding Officiant. As I arrived onsite to perform a ceremony today, I was quickly ushered into a side room where I could see both the bride and groom together and the groom was sitting down crying… these were not tears of joy. It was only 15 minutes before the ceremony was scheduled to begin and he had just found out that his mother had been rushed to the intensive care unit of the hospital.
'Fortunately' I had watched a training video just 3 days ago which gave me the framework to best handle such an intense and delicate situation. Using this framework as well as the skills I have learned and practiced as a Coach, I was able to step up and make a difference in a moment of need. What took place next was the most powerful ceremony I have ever witnessed or been a part of. Peace prevailed allowing Love to shine through.
If it wasn't for all the hours I had spent learning and, more importantly, reviewing and practicing my skills in private, there is no way I would have been ready to play my part.
I don't say this to impress you, I say this to impress upon you the importance of 'practicing in private' or as the Boy Scouts of America would say, to "Be Prepared.".
Too often we only prepare or practice when there is an immediate perceived benefit.... a planned event such as an interview.
Life, however, is what happens between the plans.
Dream you life. Live your dreams.
Your friend and Coach,
Bryce
Friday, June 18, 2010
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Thanks for sharing Bryce
ReplyDeleteI love the way that the universe puts all that we need in the way so that we trip over it just at the right time ..whether it is for us or for others
thanks bryce
ReplyDeleteyou have demonstrated that you canot contol the elepant by will power alone ,you need to know both the path and the emotion to provide the eplepant a new emotional powered choice. thanks for your coaching excellence in action . well done
to your continued success ,personally and professionally coach john